DATING VIOLENCE

☆ Relationship can still be unhealthy or abusive even without physical abuse.... Just like name calling or putting you down, telling you what to do, what to wear and the rest of it. ☆ Dating Violence has been in existence for long and is the perpetration or threat of an act of violence in our society, ☆ Dating violence is a pattern of assaultive and controlling behaviour that one uses against another in order to gain or maintain power in the Relationship. The abuser intentionally behaves in a ways that causes fear desgradating and humiliation to control his/ her partners. ☆ there was this story about a young girl who never find love...❤️ Although we will call it teen Dating. She met a young man who told her about love and because she was naive about what love is, and all that matters to her then was what she felt inside her. As time goes by their love was too strong and the man proposed to her, after she broad over it and accepted to be his wife. Both accepted and decides to inform their parents about their plans, the man was the only child to his parents. The girl got home and informed her parents about it and they refused because she was still very young to go into marriage at that time. she felt destroyed because her parents decision towards her, so she went to the man and inform him of what's happening. Both felt bad and made a decision which almost ruined the life of the young girl. Months later she was pregnant and the young man asked her to get rid off the pregnancy and she said no. She thought keeping the pregnancy will make her family accept the her man. You know the saying that no one knows what lies ahead, the young man has moved on after grieving over the news. That was when he starts to abuse her physically, and sexually in many ways and that made him became psychological aggressive towards her ☆ there are signs to know when your partners behaviour is considered violence: He talks to you in a verbal way and emotionally you're dying because of his change of attitude towardsyou and physically he treats like someone he cares not he sexually harrases you all the time. ☆ There are women/girls out there who are thinking how do i deal with this situation, how do i come out of this relationship. My darling all you need do is you talk to someone, make a safety plan, you think through the situation where you might be in danger and what you would do to get safety. ☆ will love to hear your opinion on this...how do you feel or think one can avoid Dating violence....one love from here Written by miss Jane Lekwandu